Papillon
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Post by Papillon on Aug 26, 2007 20:18:07 GMT -5
Hm, meh, I haven't really been here in a while... Well, I haven't posted in a while is what I mean.
Well, I've been in school for exactly one week. Meh, my boyfriend broke up with me, and he was a big jerk about it, I mean, he won't even tell me why. Well, he did say things weren't working out and they were working out fine! Or at least, until he started ignoring me. It's almost as if he was looking for an excuse to leave me. It was heart breaking, but I got over it. I mean, if he's going to be a jerk about it I want nothing to do with him. Well, until now. You see, my best friend (Good grades, popular girl, blonde, tall, pretty much perfect facial structure, etc.) has gotten a new bf. He's like, the third one she's had in 2007. Let me tell you he is the only thing she talks about... And what do you know, his best friend is my ex. Now, I however choose my bf's wisely, and so far I have had two, that's it! Girls my age usually have had, like, TEN! Well, my ex used to be the most considerate guy I know. Well, he isn't as jerky to me anymore, and I still really want nothing to do with him, but yeah. Very confusing concept. Now that my friend is going out with his best friend we spend a lot more time together. I still love him to pieces, but I just can't drive it through his skull.
He's soooo nice now, but I'm afraid of that happening to me again. We went out for almost a year when he dumped me, and I had no warning. Meh, should I try to get together with him again, or should I move on? Tips?
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Post by Apocalypse TJ on Aug 30, 2007 19:12:42 GMT -5
I've never had a girlfriend before so I'll give a hypothetical answer. Maybe he just isn't good with describing his reasons. It probably isn't a good idea to try and get back with the same guy again, though. I know that if I had a girlfriend, and I didn't think it would work out, for whatever reason, I would probably just end it even if I couldn't figure out the exact reasons. I imagine that if a person just has a 'feeling' it won't work out, an explanation probably isn't even necessary. Probably just being friends will be the best but I don't think you should try and get together with him again. It likely just wasn't meant to be. I'm sure you'll find someone in time.
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Post by clrichardson on Aug 31, 2007 23:39:41 GMT -5
Aw I'm sorry Sunfeather. I think TJ's right. It's probably not a good idea to try to get back with him. Guys know what they want, and if they want something (or someone) bad enough, they'll pursue it. If not then they won't. Unless he's asking you out, he doesn't want to give it another go...and even if he did, would you be content to put your heart on the line like that? Yeah.. I think you're pretty smart, and it's your life, so whatever call you make I think will be best.. Just be sure to take care of yourself!
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Papillon
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The feather of sun
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Post by Papillon on Sept 4, 2007 19:41:26 GMT -5
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Post by clrichardson on Sept 4, 2007 19:45:56 GMT -5
Kind of reminds me of something I went through. Glad you made it to the other side.
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Post by Jess on Oct 1, 2007 21:29:31 GMT -5
Now, I however choose my bf's wisely, and so far I have had two, that's it! Girls my age usually have had, like, TEN! Ok, I know this is an old thread, but I just read it & this sentence stuck out at me so I just have to reply to it. I'm 17, & i've never, NEVER had a boyfriend. Actually, I've never even been asked. So yeah, you're not the only one. =D
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Papillon
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Post by Papillon on Oct 3, 2007 16:15:00 GMT -5
Hmmm... I was talking about girls at the same school, Jess, but I have to say, don't feel bad if you haven't had a boyfriend yet (Just in case you do) Because I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was fifteen. I felt so unpopular! Well, just figured I'd throw that out, because right now I can name prolly twelve or thirteen guys who are crazy over me right now. I'm almost the most popular girl at school!
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Post by clrichardson on Oct 3, 2007 19:53:49 GMT -5
Lol I had my first boyfriend at 15 too. Just some guy I met at a skating rink who asked me to be his gf and I was taken so off guard that I said "yes" before I knew what I was committing to. ;D
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Post by Jess on Oct 4, 2007 7:59:46 GMT -5
lol @ ruukah XD i don't feel bad, sunfeather. =D i mean, i don't get why no one's asked (because i know how hot i am ), but it doesn't really bother me anymore like it used to. XD
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