Papillon
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[M:5]
The feather of sun
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Post by Papillon on Oct 11, 2007 17:22:46 GMT -5
Okay, so some of you have been following up with me about my trouble with my ex. Well... I have reached another dilemma.
You see, we've been apart for three months now and I'm pretty over it. We hang out with the same people and are in the same band, so our lives overlap a lot, but I just treat him like "any old guy".
Well, the trouble started about two days ago. He began to act funny around me. I heard that he loved another girl, even worse, my best friend, so I just shrugged his behavior off. Well, today I was talking to one of his friends (I like to visit with them before I head home) and he comes up to me and start talking randomly to him. I'm like, well what on earth! I'm allowed to have a conversation!
Well, his friend got kind of mad because my ex has been really immature for several days to everybody and went ahead and left.
Well, when he was gone, that little snake was like, "You know, I've been thinking I made a mistake breaking up with you like that."
Now, I don't know if he's saying that he wants to go out with me again, but it sure sounds like that's the bigger possibility. I had just gotten over it! I'm afraid to go back out with him, if that's the case, but I still do love him. Please help!!!
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Broken
MoTM Poll Operator
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Spaz
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Post by Broken on Oct 11, 2007 20:05:52 GMT -5
Well I am usually the skeptic type in these situations. From my experances I would say- forget it. You are over him and it's probably better to not do that to yourself again. He may think you are easy or a darn rug if you go with him again- that's never good. I think if you try to move on and keep treating him like 'any old guy' don't give him any hints, if he asks you out again flat out refuse. I think you deserve better and can do better.
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Post by clrichardson on Oct 11, 2007 21:02:49 GMT -5
I agree with Broken. Save yourself some heartache.. If he messed you up once he'll do it again. At least that's the way it goes in 9 cases out of 10. =/
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Post by Namazzi on Oct 11, 2007 21:09:37 GMT -5
I've been there and done that many many many times with my ex. Why I don't know, everytime it was worse then the time before. I agree with the others, save yourself and don't fall into his trap.
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